Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Diary of a Doc: Dr. JJ -- 1149 Days and Counting

So my son, Max, is home from college in all is glory -- 3 stuffed duffle bags (gotta give him credit...at least he did his laundry before coming home. His clothes were wrinkled, but CLEAN!), 1 backpack, 1 computer case...aching for a haircut and an In N' Out burger. It took almost a whole school year for Bruce and I to get into some sort of established rhythm and routine with the nest being mostly empty, and Max's return has thrown a wrench (quite happily I might add) into daily life. He has taken up temporary squatting rights on the sofa, as his bed is still sandwiched between our office desks and the wall (I am none too happy that my home office is still not ready), a bookcase is serving as his closet in the dining room, and the refrigerator is suddenly much emptier as Max returns to home cooking. I learned yesterday while shopping in the market with him that A1 Steak Sauce is his savior at school -- drowning out all unsavory tastes and rescuing the hopelessly boring food served in the dining hall (at University of Michigan)...ugh! We'll have none of that this summer. Already the energy in the house is different, as a smattering of his local friends are starting to stop by (eyeing him jealously as their school terms aren't over for another month) to eat, visit and reconnect. I give Max credit in that the first day after arrival , after getting a decent haircut , he was on the move looking for a summer job (or two). He wants to get his feet wet in law or entertainment, and also wants to make a little $$, whether babysitting, working in the mall, tutoring or whatever...
He is pretty motivated without a kickstart from us! Some things haven't changed, however -- the smell of the young man pervades the household (those feet! Ugh!), the tabletops now littered with the detritus of a good snack, and the reality that mom gets a few extra bear hugs a day. I am in heaven (when I'm not cooking!).

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